Wednesday, November 29, 2017

12 Must See Christmas Movies


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Peppermint hot chocolate, cozy sweaters, twinkling lights, candy canes, pine trees...

You're thinking of Christmas right now, aren't you?

You're welcome.

12 Must See Christmas Movies
One of our Christmas traditions is to watch one of our must-see Christmas movies.  Want to know what made it onto my list?  Here you go!

Monday, November 27, 2017

20+ Places to Buy Adaptive Clothing and Accessories for Special Needs

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For parents who have kids with special needs or a disability, it can be hard to find clothes that work well and are easy to wear.


This list of places that sell adaptive clothing and accessories covers just about everything from G Tubes to wheelchairs to sensory needs.   

Monday, November 20, 2017

Christmas Traditions: Ornaments for Every Occasion From Etsy

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Every year on Christmas morning, my kids know that they will find a new ornament in their stockings.  Each of their ornaments mark a milestone they experienced in the past year or note something that they're currently interested in.  This year, Katie will be receiving a basketball ornament as she just started playing basketball, Nano will get a tractor ornament because he's really getting into farming with Hubby, and Anna and Davy will each get a first year of preschool ornament as they both started school this year (Anna is in 4/5 preschool and Davy is in 3/4.)

I have a lot of fun carefully picking out a special ornament every year for each of my children.  Someday, when they move out to their own place, they will already have a collection of ornaments for their Christmas tree.  I hope this is a tradition that they will someday pass on to their own children. 

Christmas Traditions: Ornaments for Every Occasion From Etsy

One of my favorite places to get ornaments is Etsy.  I love how unique every ornament is and how easy it is to find personalized ones.  A great bonus to shopping on Etsy is being able to help support fellow small business owners like me. 

Here are some of my favorite ornaments that I found on Etsy this year...

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

The Best Places for You to Shop Online

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It's that time of year again!

Have you started your Christmas shopping yet?

I'm about halfway down with mine and most of it was done on my laptop after the kids went to bed.  Online shopping for the win!

The Best Places for You to Shop Online

I actually do most of my shopping online, even household supplies using Amazon subscriptions.  With four kids and a chronic illness, it's been a lifesaver for me. 

Here are just a few things I love about online shopping...

Monday, November 13, 2017

30+ Books for Kids with Special Needs Siblings: The Ultimate List

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When my youngest son Davy was born, my three older kids were 6, 4 and 17 months old.  The next year or so was very hard on my whole family as Davy spent countless hours at doctors' appointment, was hospitalized five times and, and required one-on-one care during most of his waking hours.  The guilt of not being able to care for all my kids' needs was crushing and made even worse when people would "helpfully" point out that I had three older kids who needed me too.  I knew that having a medically complex, special needs sibling was hard on my kids and I didn't want them to resent him or feel left out.

When Davy was around six months old, I found a book about kids with G Tubes on Amazon and got it to read to the older kids.  It helped them see that their brother's button wasn't scary and other kids had them too.  That got me thinking of how helpful books could be for kids who have siblings with special needs.

30+ Books for Kids with Special Needs Siblings: The Ultimate List

Keep reading for a list of over 30 books for kids with special needs siblings.

Tuesday, November 7, 2017

10 Things Guaranteed to Cure Whatever Ails You

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As someone with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, asthma, acid reflux disease, eczema, etc, I've heard it all.  On top of that, all four of my kids have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome as well, and three of them also have asthma and eczema.  My youngest son, Davy, had to have a feeding tube until he was 18 months old due to the severity of his issues.

10 Things Guaranteed to Cure Whatever Ails You

With all that, there's no shortage of unsolicited advice and cures.

"You only have your disease because you've 'claimed' it."

"You'd feel better if you would exercise more and eat better."

"Your *insert condition here* could be cured if you tried this supplement."

"Your EDS was caused by vaccinations."

Thanks to all the helpful advice I've received, I was able to put together a list of things that will cure any problem you have.  You're welcome.

Monday, November 6, 2017

When Terror Hits Too Close to Home

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Yesterday morning was like any other Sunday morning.  I fixed a hot dish in the crockpot for the fellowship dinner that takes place at church every week, picked out a suit and tie for Hubby, fixed the girls' hair, helped Nano with the top button on his shirt so he could put his tie on, got Davy dressed in corduroy pants and a button-up shirt, and made sure everyone had their Bibles before we left the house.

There are around 40 people in our little Baptist church on a normal Sunday, and we're all like one big family.  Hubby and I both grew up in this church.  Our parents and several of our siblings along with their families still attend as well so we have a lot of relatives in the church.  It's small and close-knit, and we love it.

When Terror Hits Too Close to Home

Like usual, 3 year old Davy struggled to sit quietly during church despite the crayons, matchbox cars, and mints I plied him with.  We sat in the back row on the right side of the church to minimize the distractions to others as they listened to the sermon.

When Terror Hits Too Close to Home
All 4 kiddos ready for church on Easter Sunday

As I sat on the padded pew, trying to pay attention to the sermon while simultaneously keeping an eye on my children to make sure they were sitting quietly, I had no idea that a tiny Baptist church in Texas, very similar in size and make-up to ours, was being terrorized by a man with a gun.  In just a few minutes over 25 people, including many children, were dead, and more were wounded.  The church was decimated, with over half of its congregation dead. 

When we got home from church later that afternoon, I sat down on my bed, exhausted from the day, and mindlessly scrolled down my Facebook feed.  An article shared by one of my friends about the attack on the Texas church stopped me dead in my tracks.  Every mass shooting that takes place feels personal, such as the school shooting in Newtown, but this one hit even closer to home.  I feel safe in my small town, but I'm realizing that there is nowhere that is safe from people bent on doing evil.  Even my tiny church where we spend time every Sunday and Wednesday is not safe. 

When Terror Hits Too Close to Home
Davy enjoying dessert at the fellowship dinner at church

I'm not sure why, but it's a scenario that has played itself out in my mind since I was a little girl.  What would I do if someone came into our church with a gun?  I only hoped that I would be able to dive under a pew with one of my younger siblings pinned beneath me for protection.  As a parent, I would do whatever it takes to protect my children, but the truth is that I can only do so much.  For the congregants at the First Baptist Church in Sutherland, there was no time to react and nowhere to hide.

So, will this change anything for my family?

Not really.  We'll still go to church every time the doors are open.  The kids will still go to school.  I'll still go the grocery store.  I'll still take the kids to the library and to their doctor appointments.  As the number of mass shootings has increased over the years, so has my vigilance.  I herd my kids out the door if something seems off at all, and I find myself watching the people around us and staying aware of my surroundings.   

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Philippians 1:21 says, "For me to live is Christ and to die is gain."

That is how I choose to live my life and how I am teaching my children to live as well.  We have to live each day for God and not worry about when and how death will find us because dying just means going Home to be with Jesus.     






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Wednesday, November 1, 2017

Bodysuit Solutions for Special Needs Kids


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I was also compensated for this post, but all opinions stated are mine. 

Davy wore an actual shirt instead of a onesie for the first time ever when he was 18 months old.  Before that, he only wore onesies to protect his G Tube on his tummy.  They kept his Mini One button covered and protected from pull-outs.

Bodysuit Solutions for Special Needs Kids

We had planned to leave the G Tube in until after the next cold and flu season as Davy generally regressed quite a bit with his oral eating when he got sick.  However, due to recurring infections, Davy's G Tube was removed earlier than planned.  Thankfully, he continued eating 100% by mouth and didn't regress too much during cold and flu season, as we had feared he might.

Thursday, October 26, 2017

50+ Books for Special Needs Kids: The Ultimate List

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If your child has special needs of any kind, reading them a book about another child with similar issues can make them feel less alone.  

When I got my kids a copy of "Special Like Me" which is a book about a boy with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome just like they have, they were pretty excited.  I even took it to the school and read it to each of my two oldest kids' classes.

For children with special needs of any kind, reading them a book about another child with similar issues can make them feel less alone.  

50+ Books for Special Needs Kids: The Ultimate List

Books that focus on special needs of any kind are not just a great idea for the kids who have them, but for their peers, family, and anyone else who could benefit from learning more about the condition (hint: that would be everyone).

With that in mind, I spent several days researching and compiling this list of children's books about various special needs and disabilities.  I hope you find a book that works for your family!   

Wednesday, October 25, 2017

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

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I wear layers most of the time.  Sometimes it's a t-shirt and hoodie, but other times, when I have to look like adulty and like I didn't just roll out of bed, I throw a vest on over my shirt to dress it up.

One day, I was wishing I had a vest to go with a specific shirt I was wearing that day and then happened to glance at my mountain reasonably sized stash of fabric and realized that I had everything I needed to make myself a new vest.  10 minutes later, I was done and out the door.

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Want to make the cutest, easiest fashion piece ever for yourself?  You'll need four things...a yard of knit fabric, fabric scissors, 10 minutes of your time, and a long sleeved shirt from your closet.

Seriously, that's it.  And don't worry.  You won't be cutting up your long sleeved shirt.   

Spread your knit fabric out and lay your long sleeved shirt on top of it, pulling the sleeves out to each side.   

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Cut a rectangle out that's several inches longer than your shirt and goes from one sleeve cuff to the other as shown below.

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Fold down the top of the shirt a few inches and make a mark on the fabric above each sleeve seam.

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Fold the shirt down again until the fold is past the bottom of the sleeves.  Make a second mark on the fabric straight below the first one as shown.

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Fold your shirt back up or toss it carelessly to the side...it's your choice.  Grab your scissors and cut two slits in the fabric starting at each bottom mark and going up to the top one.

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

Done!  The trick is that knit fabric doesn't fray so you don't have to hem it or finish the edges!  Feel free to do so if you want to, but how easy is this?!?

Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

You can find a huge selection of knit fabric on Etsy.   If you're looking for buffalo plaid like what I used for my girls' vests, you can find it here.




Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

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Easy No Sew High Low Vest Tutorial

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Thursday, October 19, 2017

My POTS Story: How an EDS Diagnosis Led to POTS

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I remember sitting in the shade as a kid while my siblings ran around and played in the sunshine.  I had no interest in joining them because the sunlight made me feel "funny."  I didn't know it at the time, but it was the first symptom of Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome or POTS.

Since I was a teenager, I've had chest pains.  They're sudden and sharp, and they feel like I'm being stabbed in the heart.  After mentioning it to my doctor, she ordered an echocardiogram and an EKG, both of which came back normal so I wrote it off as me being weird again.

My POTS Story: How an EDS Diagnosis Led to POTS

When I was 18, I went to a two day Christian music festival and camped in a tent with some of my friends.  It was hot and sunny the whole time, and I was absolutely miserable.  I ended up sleeping in the tent most of the time, so dizzy and nauseous that I could barely stand.  When I was able to get out and listen to some of the concerts, the sun was so bright that I couldn't see and I got a headache from squinting so hard.  I thought I'd be fine when we got home, but a few weeks later, I was still so fatigued that I couldn't keep my eyes open and not feeling well at all.  I went to the doctor who diagnosed me with a severe chronic magnesium deficiency.    

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I have never fainted, but I've always had issues with being dizzy and lightheaded.  I black out easily and it usually takes me a minute to feel okay again after I stand up.

With each of my four pregnancies, my symptoms got worse.  After my fourth baby, Davy was born, he had a host of medical issues so my own health got put on the back burner.  But by the time he was a year and a half older, he was doing much better and even got his feeding tube removed.  I realized that it was time to figure out what was going on with me.

My POTS Story: How an EDS Diagnosis Led to POTS

I wrote down a list of my symptoms which ended up being two pages long and included hypermobility, joint pain, dislocations, subluxations, back pain, muscle pain and spasms, GI issues, chronic fatigue, chronic pain, headaches, a severe heat intolerance, an inability to regulate body temperature, easy bruising and scarring, dizziness, brain fog, and more.  I scheduled an appointment with my primary care doctor and began researching my symptoms so I could go into the appointment prepared.

Dysautonomia Warrior shirt from Sunshine and Spoons
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One of the conditions that caught my attention was Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome.  I added it to my list of possibilities and even took the poor man's tilt table test at home.  The results definitely showed that it was something worth looking into.

When I saw my doctor, she took one look at my list and referred me to a neurologist.  I asked the neuro doctor about POTS and she scheduled me for a tilt table test, the standard test for POTS.
      
The day of the tilt table test, I woke up feeling unusually good.  The elevators from the parking garage to the clinic didn't even make me feel dizzy like they generally do.  The test went well, which surprised me.  Not surprisingly, the results came back normal and negative for POTS.

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The neurologist ran a few other tests as well, which all came back normal so she referred me to a rheumatologist who was booked out about six months.

Instead of sitting back and waiting for my appointment, I kept researching, hoping to find some answers.  And then, I posted a picture on Instagram of Davy's hypermobile ankle and someone asked if he had Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.  I started researching it and realized that it fit both his and my symptoms perfectly.  At his next genetics appointment, I asked the geneticist about it and it was like a light went on in the room.  He and I were both unofficially diagnosed that day.  Later that summer, Davy, two of his older siblings, and I were all diagnosed with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.

My POTS Story: How an EDS Diagnosis Led to POTS

I threw myself into setting up specialist appointments, therapies, and more and for a while, mostly forgot about POTS.  But it stayed in the back of my mind and once things slowed down on the medical front, I brought it up to my EDS doctor.  She agreed that despite the results of the tilt table test, (which can be wrong!) my symptoms definitely sounded like POTS.  EDS often comes with POTS as well so it made sense.  She diagnosed me with it that day.

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You can learn more about POTS here.

I'd love to hear your POTS story!  Please feel free to share it in the comments.






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Monday, October 16, 2017

Just Like Me: Toys for Kids with Special Needs

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Kids love it when their toys look like them.  From hair and eye color, to any special needs that they might have, it helps them feel accepted.  They can also help kids feel less afraid of their differences or medical conditions.

My son Davy was only two months old when he had surgery to get his G Tube.  The day before his surgery, a nurse came into his hospital room with a stuffed bunny that had a G Tube just like the one Davy would be getting.  I practiced hooking the extension tube up on the bunny before and after Davy got his feeding tube which was much less stressful than having to practice on my screaming baby.  He got his G Tube out when he was 18 months old, but the bunny still sits on top of his dresser.  I plan to add it to his memory box when he gets older.

Just Like Me: Toys for Kids with Special Needs

Toys that are adapted or created to have special needs or disabilities shouldn't just be for the kids who have them though.  What greater way to teach your child that it's okay to be different, have a feeding tube, or wear leg braces than for them to play with a toy like that?

Friday, October 13, 2017

Handsocks and Eczema Awareness Month

I was compensated in the form of product for this post.  Nevertheless everything in this post is my honest opinion.

October is Eczema Awareness Month.  Mild eczema is usually no more than an annoyance, but for people who have severe eczema, it can be downright miserable.

With four of us diagnosed with asthma, eczema is also a common issue in our family.  Davy's eczema is definitely the worst though.

Handsocks and Eczema Awareness Month

The poor kid has eczema from head to toe and when it's flaring up, he's so miserable that he can't sleep at night.  He scratches until his skin is raw and open.  I do a skin care routine for him each night that includes a layer of triamcinolone (a prescription steroid cream), vaseline, and then vanicream.  The triamcinolone often burns when it's applied and so understandably, Davy hates his skin care routine.   Periodically, his eczema will flare-up so severely that nothing I do at home can get it under control again.  The only thing that works at that point is a round of Prednisone (an oral steroid) and antibiotics.

To keep Davy from scratching and rubbing the cream and lotion off of his skin after I put him to bed, I put him in footed pajamas like these.  However, he'd still scratch and no matter how short I kept his fingernails, he managed to scratch hard enough to draw blood every night.  I tried putting socks on his hands, but he pulled them off the minute I left the room.

Handsocks and Eczema Awareness Month

When Casey, founder of Handsocks, offered to send me some of her Handsocks to try on Davy, I was pretty excited.  I was desperate to find a way to keep Davy from scratching his eczema at night and Handsocks looked like they'd solve the problem.

Guess what?

They worked!!  No matter how hard he tried, Davy couldn't pull them off.  Having a way to keep him from scratching his eczema meant that it could finally heal better.

So here's the lowdown on Handsocks...

Casey, a mom of two, came up with the idea after using a pair of ski socks to keep her daughter's hands and arms warm during the winter.  They come in sizes newborn through 3T and in a variety of designs, including college football themed ones.  The soft minky mittens fold back so kids can still use their hands to play or eat without taking the Handsocks off.  There are no snaps or velcro to keep them on, but they're stretchy enough that kids and babies can't pull them off.


Handsocks and Eczema Awareness Month

For each pair of Handsocks purchased, a donation is made to Orphan's Promise, an organization that provides shelter, medical care, food and education to orphans in the US and around the world.

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Just a few of the uses for Handsocks are:
  • To keep little ones from scratching eczema, rashes, or other skin conditions.
  • To keep hands and arms warm in cold winter weather.  Babies and kids often pull off their mittens leaving their little hands exposed to harsh conditions, but Handsocks stay on!
  • To keep little ones with medical conditions from pulling out their feeding and/or oxygen tubes.
  • To protect fingers from little ones with oral fixations who like to chew on their hands.  
You can find Handsocks on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Youtube.  Don't forget to subscribe to get discounts and updates!

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Thursday, October 12, 2017

What Is Life Like with ALS?


I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and it can make being a mom hard.  My kids know that there are days that Mommy has lots of owies and needs to rest.  I can't do a lot of activities with them like take them to the park or go for walks with them.

My EDS has given me a small taste of what it's like to be a mom with Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis or ALS (also known as Lou Gehrig's Disease).  Sarah from Speed 4 Sarah was diagnosed with ALS when she was 33 and her daughter was just two years old.


ALS is a progressive neurodegenerative disorder.  Early symptoms include muscle cramps and twitching, weakness in the limbs, and difficulty swallowing or speaking.  As it progresses, the muscles atrophy and eventually become paralyzed.  The survival rate is generally 2-5 years after diagnosis.

In an article for CNN about her journey navigating motherhood with ALS, Sarah writes: "At first, I was drowning in my inability, in all the ways I thought I would fail her as a mom.  Then something unexpected started to happen.  The things I couldn't do for her, she started to do for herself.  When she was two, she dressed herself.  By age three, she was opening doors for me and helping with groceries.  At 4, she could make a quiche, and these days, she folds laundry and cleans her room with only the slightest bit of prodding."

I'm teaming up with the ALS Therapy Development Institute and Linqia to raise money for ALS research with the #whatwouldyougive campaign.  It challenges people to temporarily give up an ability such as using their arms or legs to get a small taste of what life with ALS is like.


Are you ready to join the fight?  Donate here and share the #whatwouldyougive campaign on social media and let's #endALS.  Click here to learn more about ALS and who it affects.

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Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Giving Back Program Pick for October

In the past, I've selected March as a month to give back by donating a percentage of all sales in the Sunshine and Spoons Shop to a foundation or charity organization.  But now it's time to up the ante.

From now on, I will be selecting a different organization each month to which to donate 10% of all proceeds from the Sunshine and Spoons Shop during that month.  Each month, the new organization will be posted here so you can see who and how your purchases can help.  I'll also post the total from the month before.

As October is Dysautonomia Awareness Month, a cause that is dear to my heart (pun intended for those of you with POTS, haha) 10% off the proceeds from all purchases during the month will be donated to Dysautonomia International.


Be sure to check out the dysautonomia collection at the Sunshine and Spoons Shop to help raise awareness for and continue to fund research for dysautonomia.  Remember though that ALL purchases count towards the donation amount.

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Monday, October 2, 2017

What are Dysautonomia and POTS?

Did you know that October is Dysautonomia Awareness Month?

Let me back that up a little....do you know what dysautonomia is?

If you said no, you're not alone.  Most people have never even heard of it.  I didn't know what it was either until I was diagnosed with it.

What are Dysautonomia and POTS?